I've decided to make Harlow's pronouns he/they now because I want him as transmasculine. I myself am transmasculine (he/they) and I feel like writing Harlow similar to me makes it easier for me to write. So yeah, a broad part of Harlow is based on me (personality as well).
Harlow also commonly goes by Harry or Ari; a nickname used by Terri and Liam as well as their brother. In the first chapter, it's just they/them because I wrote that before I made this decision. I'm too lazy to go through and add he/him in there so the new pronouns will only be in the next chapters. One chapters not bad though.
Basically, Harlow or Harry and he/they.
